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Welcome to a space dedicated to building a warm and inclusive community for women growing older together. Explore articles that celebrate the power of connection, shared experiences, and mutual support. Find inspiration in diverse voices, discover ways to build meaningful relationships, and feel a sense of belonging within a vibrant network of women.


A Little Something I’ve Been Working On
Ladies, I’ve been quietly working on something for us — something that makes seasonal refreshes simple, elegant, and meaningful.
Because let’s be honest: sometimes we want a fresh little touch for our homes, and other times we just need a thoughtful gift in a pinch — a birthday, a hostess thank-you, a “just because” surprise. And running to the big-box aisle isn’t exactly inspiring.

Kim-The Seasoned Lady
Aug 212 min read


The Special Art of Porch Sitting
Some of my most treasured memories are stitched into the fabric of long summer evenings on my grandparents’ front porch, tucked deep in the heart of twentieth century Appalachia.
The old porch swing creaked gently beneath my aunt and I as we rocked back and forth, sipping lemonade from Mamaw's Bolero Thermoware cups, the kind that were multicolored like her summer flowers, and had just enough sweat on the outside to make you appreciate the ice inside.

Kim-The Seasoned Lady
Jul 262 min read


The Radical Art of Letting Go (Yes, Even the Hanger Straps)
Today, I did something completely radical. And no, it didn’t require a helmet or a lawyer. But friends, it did take courage.
This particular act of rebellion has been bouncing around in my head for over 15 years. I’ve had full-blown internal debates about it—everything from “Will I need this again someday?” to “This could destroy the entire functionality of the item!” You’d think I was planning a heist, not doing what I actually did:
I cut the plastic hanger straps out of

Kim-The Seasoned Lady
Jul 182 min read


A Tribute to My Daughters: Quiet Patriots in Their Own Right
To my daughters: your sacrifice may not have been recognized with medals or ceremonies, but it was no less real. You served this country in the hardest of ways—by living with grace, perseverance, and loyalty in the shadow of a calling that asked more of all of us than we realized at the time.
You are patriots. Every bit as much as your active-duty daddy.

Kim-The Seasoned Lady
Jul 42 min read


When the Encourager Needs Encouragement: How The Seasoned Lady Stays Sane (or close to it)
This year—2025—has been especially poignant. Some beautiful, life-giving moments have arrived that I never expected. I’ve treasured those. But then came the gut-punches. The kind that leave your stomach in knots and your brain in a fog. I've found myself saying, more than once, “Can we just have a boring year, please?” followed by a laugh that carries a hint of too much truth.

Kim-The Seasoned Lady
Jul 33 min read


Marking the Moments That Matter: The Seasoned Lady teaching her grandkids to mark and treasure all the special seasons along the way
There’s a beauty in making certain moments feel momentous. Not everything in life needs to be celebrated with cake and balloons, but some things—those small shifts that signal “you’re growing up”—deserve to be noticed, remembered, and marked with care. And each individual, male and female alike, need to know that they are seen, recognized as special and unique, and invested in.

Kim-The Seasoned Lady
Jun 234 min read


The Summer They’ll Never Forget (And Neither Will I)
I've been a bit quiet this week. Rather, I should say I wasn't necessarily "quiet" as much as otherwise invested this past week. There was very little "quiet" in our home! It was a grandkid-focused week; a whirlwind of buttered bread, swimming pool splashes, sticky ginger-cookie fingers, and jigsaw puzzle pieces that never quite stayed on the table

Kim-The Seasoned Lady
Jun 162 min read


How to Spot a Frenemy in 3 Questions
Some people light up a room when they walk in. Others? When they walk out.
At this stage in life, we’ve earned the right to curate our circle like it’s fine art. We know the difference between acquaintances and true blue friends. But every now and then, someone slips in wearing the mask of sisterhood while quietly rooting for our downfall. That, my friend, is a frenemy—a friendly face with hidden claws.

Kim-The Seasoned Lady
May 302 min read


Why I Don't Argue On the Internet
I used to think engaging in a spirited back-and-forth online meant standing up for what I believed in. But let’s be real: most internet arguments aren’t about learning or understanding. They’re about ego, one-upmanship, and who can hit “reply” the fastest with a snarky comeback.

Kim-The Seasoned Lady
May 261 min read


Off the Beaten Path: 3 East Coast Escapes for the Seasoned Traveler
Travel doesn’t always need plane tickets or passport stamps. Sometimes the richest experiences are found down a back road, at a table for two, with homemade pie and a story from someone who’s lived there all their life.

Kim-The Seasoned Lady
May 213 min read


What I Know Now That I Wish I Knew at 30
If I could sit across from my 30-year-old self—with her high hopes, her exhaustion, and her relentless quest to “get it all right”—I wouldn’t lecture her. I’d pour her a cup of herbal tea, hand her a piece of dark chocolate, and tell her a few things straight from the heart.

Kim-The Seasoned Lady
May 193 min read


How to Avoid the Drama Triangle (Without Moving to the Woods): A Guide for the Seasoned Lady
You don't need to pack your bags for a remote woodland retreat to have peace. Understanding this pattern will help avoid being caught in the Drama Triangle

Kim-The Seasoned Lady
May 143 min read


What My 40s Have Taught Me About Strength, Health, and Happiness
In my 20s and 30s, I lived for the burn. It was about being tough, disciplined, and unstoppable. The harder I pushed, the more my body pushed back. It forced me to re-evaluate what health really meant and what I actually needed to thrive.

Mandy Resmodo
May 124 min read


Build What You Cannot See (pt 1)
Building something starts with a dream. But dreams don’t build themselves. It takes vision, planning, and a whole lot of hard work to turn an idea into reality. There’s sacrifice involved...

Melissa Northcutt
May 72 min read


The Day I Decided to Be Bold Instead of Bitter
There comes a moment in every woman’s life when she stands at a quiet crossroads where she chooses to let go and be bold instead of bitter.

Kim-The Seasoned Lady
May 53 min read


Keep It Simple, Señorita: A Seasoned Lady's Guide to Easy Cinco de Mayo Hosting
This Cinco de Mayo, we’re taking the stress out and have a simple, flavorful, joy-filled party without the stress. Let's lean in to the fun and keep it simple.

Kim-The Seasoned Lady
May 22 min read


Celebrating Seasoned Ladies as "O.G.s" : Part 2 of Embracing the Title of "O.G."
For seasoned ladies, being called one of the O.G.s is a powerful affirmation of our journey and contributions. Here are some ways to celebrate and embrace this title

Melissa Northcutt
Apr 232 min read


Boundaries Aren’t Mean—They’re Maintenance: Lessons From My Trip Through Italy
Let’s get one thing straight: saying “no” doesn’t make you mean. It's called setting boundaries.

Kim-The Seasoned Lady
Apr 214 min read


From One Seasoned Lady to Another: Embrace Your Power, Darling
You know, with each year that passes, we get more... seasoned—and by that, I mean we’ve learned enough to stop putting up with everyone’s nonsense. Embrace this season!

Sass'mirelda
Apr 193 min read


Embracing the Title of "O.G.": Celebrating the Originals
Being called an O.G. is about more than just being a pioneer; it is about embodying qualities that inspire and uplift others.

Melissa Northcutt
Apr 163 min read
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